For those of you who have been begging us to find a harness that can be used with the Nexus and the Nexus Jr., this is one of the better ones thanks to the low placement of the O-ring. It's not perfect, but when we tested this harness with the Nexus Jr., it held the innie side of the toy up against the G-spot of the wearer and kept the toy more firmly in place than when we tried the dildo again without a harness at all. Another bonus: the nylon strap down the back is thin enough to fit comfortably between the butt-cheeks, providing extra stimulation against the anus while thrusting (especially if you are using a butt plug or a little lube there).

Both the hip straps and the g-string strap on this harness are adjustable and can accommodate hips up to 54". Please note: the 1-1/2" O-ring is not interchangeable, so not every dildo will work with this harness.

item HT-SSI-1928: $19.95
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item HT-KOK-2423: $39.95
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Made of sturdy, high-quality black leather, the Men's Harness is built to last a lifetime. Both sides of the hip straps have buckles for adjustability (between 30" to 46"), not quite the range we might have hoped for, but still. A codpiece-like cup houses your cock and balls when you are strapped in, keeping them cozy while the dildo of your choice does all the work. The cup is fastened to a buckle-adjustable ass-strap to keep everything firmly in place and tight to the hips. Ideal for times when your cock just won't (or can't) get hard, when you want to go all night long and your parts have a mind of their own, or when you want to do your lover with a shaft that is bigger or smaller than what you were blessed with, the Men's Harness is your pinch hitter.

The cut-out hole for the dildo holds toys up to 1-3/4 inches in diameter, but anything wider than that will not fit through (there is no adjustable 0-ring on this harness). Likewise, a skinny dildo will flop around in a hole of this size, so the most compatible dongs are between 1-1/4" to 1-3/4" wide. Make sure the dildo you choose to pair with the Men's Harness has a flat, flanged base at least 2" across so it will not slip all the way though and onto the floor. Because really, what good is a dildo going to do for your lover on the floor? Also, it took a few tries for some of our guys to get used to thrusting with their upper abdomen instead of their lower hips (and they are professionals!). Be prepared to need some practice when adjusting to your new cock.

Please shop carefully. We do not accept satisfaction returns on this item. Please see our ordering information page for our complete returns policy.

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item HT-KOK-2204: $129.95
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It works its magic with two O-rings: one to hold a dildo to his abdomen and another to go around his cock and balls. The kit comes with three metal O-rings (1-1/2", 1-3/4" and 2") and one rubber one (1-3/4") which can all be swapped around depending on which one fits around his package better; however, most of our male testers wanted a larger rubber O-ring for comfort's sake (not included, but we do sell them). The bottom ring is connected to the harness by four snaps; so keep in mind that even if you usually wear a 2" metal cock-and-ball-ring, it's going to fit smaller on this harness. (By the way, one testing couple reported that you can remove that G-string strap and the whole shebang still stays in place just fine). Also note that getting this harness on takes a bit of calculation and forethought; best try it with the lights ON first time around.

The dildo that comes with this harness measures 5-1/4" x 1-3/16" (shown top) and comes in red or purple (sorry, but we do not offer a choice of color). If you are a female wearer wanting to do another lady, all you need is a second dildo and you are off to the races (so to speak). Or, if you are just looking for a cool cock-ring harness, or even just a harness than men can wear above their package with a higher dildo for vaginal penetration, this one works smashingly.

Note: We photographed this harness with two dildos to show how a cock should be positioned with both the balls and shaft through the ring, but only the top toy (shown in Purple) is included with the harness.

item HT-SSI-2136: $58.95
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The front piece is made of a plush knit fabric with light padding sandwiched inside. The 1-1/4" hole is reinforced by a rubber O-ring sewn between the layers, so it's not adjustable, but it works perfectly with the provided dildo (5" x 1-1/4"). The side and butt straps are soft 1/2" wide webbing with black plastic tension-lock adjusters and are surprisingly comfortable for nylon webbing straps. The straps meet in the back at a metal O-ring that turned out to be more comfortable than we anticipated and provides a bit of flash accent to the look of the black straps. It also allows those of you who prefer to wear the hip straps up over your hips to adjust them up there instead of straight across the hips. The harness comes with an Acute dildo in a shimmery pink color (not shown). Fits up to 52" hips.

item HT-SSI-1921: $52.95
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