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The Kinky Girl's Guide to Dating
Grey, Luna
Greenery Press
If you're new to the world of kinky dating and need a good starting
place, look no further. The Kinky Girl's Guide to Dating is
an easy-to-read introduction, full of anecdotes and written mainly in a
conversational style that makes it fun to read. Full of good advice on
how to find and more-or-less safely immerse yourself in your local BDSM
scene, this book will help those interested in exploring their naughtier
nature feel more secure while doing so. Be warned that more experienced
players will find some of this information both too obvious and too
scant; the author relies heavily on general references to her Resource
section, and we wish she'd at least give some specific pointers
in the body of the book itself. Still, the book is such an interesting
and comforting read that newer players will probably devour it cover to
cover, making it an excellent place to begin your research. (2004, 166
pp.)
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Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism
Miller, Phillip and Molly Devon
Mystic Rose
This intro to SM book has a bit of just about everything. It's well
written, though the fact that it is very much from and for the
male-dominant/female-submissive viewpoint sorta got on this reviewer's
nerves — but that perspective didn't get in the way of the sheer
usefulness of this book. The authors display an entertaining sense of
humor throughout (which is a major relief to those of us who've seen a
few too many SM writers take themselves way too seriously!). They also
show an astounding amount of grace in that, when they didn't have the
knowledge to write sensibly or helpfully about something, they said so
and left it alone. It's an excellent reference manual for either the
complete novice or the player with some experience under his or her
belt. (1995, 277 pp.)
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The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage
Midori (with photographer Craig Morey)
This beautifully printed, well-illustrated coffee-table-size book (no,
it's not as big as a coffee-table, you silly people) provides clear,
thorough, step-by-step instructions on how to do Japanese rope bondage.
(For those of you who aren't familiar with it, Japanese bondage is a
centuries-old form of rope bondage, done with the goal of being both
decorative and functional.) Written by sex educator Midori (a.k.a.
FetishDiva Midori), The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage
introduces the reader to the history and general principles of the
technique and gives thorough, step-by-step instructions on seven
different basic forms/positions, accompanied by clear, detailed line
drawings of each step in the process. Plus each position is illustrated
with a full-color photo of the completed pose. Like Japanese rope
bondage itself, the book is both lovely to look at and extremely
functional. (2001, 175 pp.)
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Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macrame
Harrington, Bridgett
This rope-bondage book is chock-full of instructions for really cool
ties, corsets, gauntlets, chest harnesses and even dildo harnesses
(which can be made for any size body!) that you can make out of rope!
Starting with the basics (the kinds of rope, how tight you should bind,
how to care for your rope, etc.), each chapter takes you one step
further in the world of Shibari (Japanese decorative rope bondage): One
Column Ties, Two Column Ties, Chest Harnesses, Combinations, Rope
Corsets and Crotch Ropes. Not as glossy as Bondage for Sex
(this one is all black-and-white inside), this book focuses more on
wearable bondage (harnesses, wrist bondage, etc.) than on using rope to
tie a person down for sex, though there is some overlap between the two.
In other words, if you're looking for a book to teach you to make a very
nice, all-rope outfit for your next sex party, this is the book you
want. (2006, 155 pp.)
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Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes
Two Knotty Boys, Larry Utley
Green Candy Press
Not just another rope bondage how-to book, Two Knotty Boys Showing
You the Ropes is possibly the easiest to understand of all the
easy-to-understand rope bondage books that have come out recently. It
breaks down the steps so fine that often you get to see both the step in
action ("pull the end all the way over the top") and what it looks like
once that step is done ("you have two ropes hanging down"), which is way
useful when you're trying to figure out if you're doing it right. The
photography is black-and-white, but very clear and, we'll say it again,
easy to follow. The whole thing is arranged in self-explanatory
sections: The Knots (from square knots to trinity Celtic knots), Basic
Bondage (Cat's Paw for Ankles, Rope Shackle, etc.), Decorative Bondage
(Rope Corset, Trinity Knot Bra, Tortoise Shell Bodysuit, and so on),
Dominance Bondage (Wrist Tie-Back, Quick Bit Gag, etc.), and Sex Bondage
(from Table Tie-Down to Rope Strap-On). And it's seriously reasonably
priced as well. What's knot to like? (2006, 80 pp.)
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