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Almost all our book categories include at least a couple of queer-related books. To make them easier to find, we've gathered them all here on this page. Most of these are specifically about queerness in some way; there's a few that aren't, but we thought our gay, lesbian, bi, and/or trans friends might be especially interested in them anyway.
Adonis: Masterpieces of Male Erotic Photography
Olley, Michelle
Thunder's Mouth Press
If you're aching for a new coffee table book full of exquisite, tasteful male nudes, look no further. Adonis features made nude photography done by a variety of talented photographers: Andy Warhol, Trevor Watson, Doris Kloster and Wolfgang Tillmans to name but a few. The images range from the 1930's to the present, with fine examples of male form displayed upon breathtaking scenery (rock outcroppings, waterfalls), cityscapes, lush interior rooms or against the simplicity of a photographer's studio backdrop. Gorgeous nudes, artsy enough to leave on the coffee table when your parents come over (well, maybe), what's not to like? 9" x 11". (1999, 224 pp.)

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After Midnight: True Lesbian Erotic Confessions
James, Chelsea, Ed.
Cleis Press
Sure, you've seen The Crash Pad and Superfreak so you have a good idea of how lesbians really fuck. But what if you want more details? Or you want to read about it? Or maybe you just want more story behind your fucking. Well, After Midnight is a collection of true lesbian erotic confessions, and is sure to satisfy any lingering curiosities about what real women do with one another. From affairs with married women and all-girl gang-bangs to tender expressions of love and sensuality between committed partners, many aspects of lesbian love-lives are depicted here. (2006, 240 pp.)

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[RECOMMENDED!]

Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide for Men and Women
Morin, Jack, Ph.D.
Yes (Down There)
An exploration of anal sexuality in an intelligent, non-sexist way. Sometimes called the "bible of anal sex," this is easily one of the most useful and informative books on the subject, and is highly recommended by sex experts and educators everywhere. This edition, the third, has been revised once again, and addresses power dynamics in relationships, anal sex other than intercourse, and finding a non-judgmental health care provider, as well as info on anatomy and relaxation and communication techniques. (1998, 269 pp.)

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Angels in America: Part One: Millennium Approaches
Kushner, Tony
Theatre Communications Group
Winning the Pulitzer Prize for drama in 1993, Angels in America: Millennium Approaches is the mind-blowing first installment of a two-part play that, despite not being overtly sexual, definitely deserves a place on our pages. With AIDS running rampant and Reagan in the White House, playwright Tony Kushner takes a look at what it means to be an American, seamlessly weaving realism into fantasy (and vice versa) with a cast of characters that includes both the living and the dead. Even in the midst of sickness and self-doubt, Kushner's characters engage in dialogue that is witty, poignant, and even humorous. Tony Kushner has a talent for standing on your toes while tickling you with a feather; he keeps you laughing but you're still aware of the weight. (1993, 119 pp.)

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Best Gay Erotica 2007
Lambert, Timothy J. (Editor)
Cleis Press
Some of the sweetest, hottest gay sex we've ever read can be found within the pages of Best Gay Erotica 2007. Well-written stories about real relationships make the sex that much more meaningful... and steamy. From the tender reminiscing about teenagers exploring one another every day of the summer in the hayloft to the joyful fucking that comes after finally nailing that hot sales guy, there's something here for everyone. There's even a short graphic story written by Dale Lazarov and drawn by Drub. (2007, 212 pp.)

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Best Lesbian Erotica 2007
Taorimino, Tristan (editor)
Cleis Press
What with all the fauxbian sex being showcased as the real deal, it comes as no surprise that stories of real dykes having real sex in the tender, hot, kinky, nasty, loving ways they do in their own lives are in high demand. In Best Lesbian Erotica 2007, we get some of the hottest writers around treating us to a sampling of diverse desires that wets our panties. This one-handed read is packed cover to cover with steamy stories of lust and desire that feels so real it is palatable. It has a little bit of everything, too; kinky ladies leading their pussy cats on leashes through hotel lobbies, sweet tales of Valentines confections and sugar-filled lip locks, first time rendezvous after many years of wanting, as well as a whole lot of gender role switching, motorcycle riding, cock-sucking, bathroom stall rockin', fuck 'til you drop kind of action. With many of our favorite authors including (but not limited to) Radclyffe, Rachel Kramer Bussel, Joy Parks, and edited by Tristan Taormino, demi-god of all things sexy, you are sure not be disappointed with this 2007 collection. (2006, 250 pp.)

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Best Lesbian Erotica 2008
Taormino, Tristan (editor)
Cleis Press
If hearing the words "lesbian erotica" conjures up soft-focus visions of women gently petting one another's breasts and hair, this notable anthology is going to change all that. Best Lesbian Erotica 2008 finds all sorts of lesbians in all sorts of places, from femmey college students to a friend's mom to an Amish teenager stuck in a downpour with her friends. These women fuck one another with wild abandon, often with a "no holes barred" sort of mentality that leaves the reader breathless and sometimes more than a little wet herself. With stories by Rachel Kramer Bussell, Shanna Germain, Peggy Munson and more, this fantastic anthology is sure to tickle you just right. (2008, 254 pp.)

(New as of June 3, 2008)

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The Cunt Coloring Book
Corinne, Tee
Last Gasp
Over three dozen cunts of every size and description for you to color. Will the heat make puddles of your crayons, or leave them stiff?

This book measures approximately 8-1/2" x 11". (1998, 48 pp.)

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Divas of San Francisco: Portraits of Transsexual Women
Steinberg, David
Red Alder Books
We love David Steinberg's photography here at Blowfish, so when we discovered that he had a new collection out, we had to pounce on it. Divas of San Francisco: Portraits of Transsexual Women is the culmination of a five year project documenting the beautiful women who frequent San Francisco's famous Divas Nightclub. Every type of woman is represented here: various body types, ethnicities and ages grace the pages. Taken with Steinberg's keen eye, the women in these images, though all dolled up, are not of your stereotypical "drag queen"; from candids to posed shots, Steinberg captures something of the personality of each woman through the intensity of their gaze. Allowing a glimpse into a world that few of us know much about, he helps demystify transsexual culture and presents these women as the normal, everyday people that they are. (2007, 64 pp.)

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[RECOMMENDED!]

Gay Tarot
Based on the sequence and images of Waite-Smith style tarot decks, Gay Tarot is a modern, homosexual interpretation of those familiar symbols. And, wow, is it ever well-done. Updated not only for gay life, but for modern living, the images reflect and refer to the older images in the Waite-Smith style decks. For example, the 10 of Swords features a computer screen showing the Waite-Smith style image of the impaled figure. Others are more subtle: the 3 of Wands features a (presumably gay) father waving goodbye to his young daughter on her way to school, ghosted on either side by older images of the same girl, while the Waite-Smith styles picture a man gazing out over a bay as his three ships sail into the future. Other significant changes: The Priestess is now The Intuitive, The Empress is now The Protector, The Devil is now Self-Hatred, the Tower is now Revelation (with the image of a young man coming out to his parents) and Judgement is now Beyond Judgement. The court cards are titled Youth, Man, Guide, and Sage. The little white book does its best to update the meanings as the images have been updated, albeit in the usual minimal phrasing found in LWBs. The best part of the LWB is the "self-image" spread (which is the only spread included, although the LWB refreshingly acknowledges that there are many different spreads, and you can make up your own). The changes all make sense, the images are well-drawn, and the modern imagery makes it more accessible for those who have trouble relating the more traditional images to their modern lives. Overall, we're seriously impressed with this lovely deck. Two fins up!

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[RECOMMENDED!]

Girl Meets Girl: A Dating Survival Guide
Cage, Diana
Alyson Books
Fun to read, witty and full of useful advice on finding and hooking up with that girl of your dreams, Diana Cage's Girl Meets Girl: A Dating Survival Guide is an essential guide for lesbians of all types. From where to meet the women to cocktail advice from San Francisco's hottest dyke bartenders to how to deal with "dyke drama" afterwards, this book gently walks you through the sometimes tricky world of dating girls. And, of course, she fully covers the sex side of things. Whoo, boy, does she ever! There's some of the best tips for getting a woman in the mood that we've ever read, tips for sex with butch bodies, how to make your bedroom a nice place to bring girls back to, how to best use all those sex toys you've amassed, how to give great head... Cage covers it all in her easy, engaging style. This is the most fun we've had reading a non-fiction book in some time! Two fins up! (2007, 182 pp.)

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Hot Gay Erotica
Labonte, Richard, ed.
Cleis Press
This anthology is full of what the title promises: hot gay erotica. The stories are both sexy and thought-provoking -- the all-too-rare combination of good smut writing that's also good writing. From disturbing sexual fantasies that stem from being robbed at gun point to a touchingly sweet tale of a 60th birthday celebration, these stories are as engaging as they are hot. A first-rate general collection of gay smut, a turn-on to the mind as well as the libido (2006, 204 pp)

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[RECOMMENDED!]

In a Metal Web
Manning, Michael
NBM
The third in the very popular and wonderfully naughty Spider Garden series, In a Metal Web continues the story of Sasaya Nijan, once a slave given to the Sacred Angrogyne Shaalis to pay off a gambling debt, now the voluptuous caretaker of Hir sexual playground known as the Spider Garden. But from the ocean depths the Serpentine Sisters watch, planning to trick Sasaya into their devious plans. Michael Manning's artwork (which also graces our Blowfish Mermaid Mug) is as sharp as ever, and the sex depicted here is so hot the review copy kept mysteriously disappearing from our Book Buyer's desk. Definitely recommended. (2003, 70 pp.)

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The Leather Daddy and the Femme
Queen, Carol
Down There Press
This book is hotter than Carrie's Story.

Yes, you read that right.

This book is, by far, this Blowfishie's absolute favorite work of erotica, ever. Written in a clear, uncluttered style, it jumps you from the first page, then proceeds to hold you down and ravish you raw. And whatta ravishing! These characters live sex lives the rest of us only dream about, and they do it with total disregard for who has what set of goodies, and how they're "supposed" to think about them. This book goes beyond genderbending, all the way to the breaking point. Hardcore deviant freethinking sexuality reigns. Each chapter is great stroke material in itself; the hard part is how to decide: do I parcel it out slowly, savoring each chapter's story, or do I gorge myself in a frenzy of lust? You decide...

This book was originally published in 1998 and we were devastated when it went out of print. This is the "author's edition" with several new chapters and a new introduction. We're so very happy to have it back on our shelves. (2003, 184 pp.)

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Love Me
Karsten, Thomas
Not just another collection of pretty, arty, black-and-white photos of naked women (although it certainly is that): you may well find yourself lingering on the women's faces in Love Me much more than their other body parts, as lovely as those body parts are. Photographer Karsten is clearly full of affection for the women he photographs, and he does a remarkable job of capturing personality and character and the unique sexuality that lights up a person from the inside. Whether they're grinning or reflecting or coyly flirting, giggling with their honey or staring at the camera with a smoldering gaze, the women in this book look like women -- individual, human women, with moods and quirks that come through vividly (and very erotically) in the photos. No very explicit sex, although there are some delightful lesbian rompings.

This book measures approximately 9-3/4" x 12-1/2". (1998, 191 pp.)

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[RECOMMENDED!]

Photo Sex: Fine Art Sexual Photography Comes of Age
Steinberg, David
Down There Press
Wow, what a fine collection of photographs! This is one of the rare photo books that is immediately pounced on and devoured here in the Blowfish offices, despite most of us having "seen it all" already. There's an immediacy and an unmistakable intimacy to these pictures that most polished-and-posed erotic photo compositions lack. The facial expressions, the bodies in motion, the settings all come across as natural and engaging to the viewer; indeed, one feels invited in, asked to watch these sweet, hot little moments captured on film. The range of subjects is astounding and refreshing as well -- here, finally, you can see hetero, gay, lesbian, trans-gender, old, young, skinny and zaftig, leather and lace, all in one volume. Even the more extreme acts depicted here -- such as the vaginal fisting and piss-play -- are presented in a matter-of-fact manner, lessening the shock value. Don't miss the thoughtful introductions by A.D. Coleman and editor David Steinberg either. Overall, a fine collection, worthy of many perusals. Definitely recommended.

This book measures approximately 9" x 12". (2003, 128 pp.)

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[RECOMMENDED!]

Rent Girl
Tea, Michelle & Laurenn McCubbin
Last Gasp
Talk about a page turner! Rent Girl follows the life of one baby dyke who turns to prostitution to make an easy buck; unfortunately, the buck isn't always as easy as she'd hoped. The story is at once laugh-out-loud funny and incredibly poignant and raw -- you have sympathy for the main character even as you shake your head at some of her decisions and misadventures. The illustrations capture the best moments of the plot, with expressive facial expressions that add layers to the already witty and engaging story. Sure, there are some typos and misused words, but for the most part that just adds to the personal diary feel of the work. Definitely recommended. (2004, 300 pp.)

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[RECOMMENDED!]

Sex Works, 1978-2005
Volcano, Del Lagrace (Photographer), Preciado, Beatriz (Text by (Art/Photo Book
This exquisite picture book pushes traditional gender boundaries into a pleasing, nebulous shape. We have to agree with its claim to be a "shameless and thrilling archive of radical queer sexualities from 1978 to the present day". Many of these photographs appear "normal" at first glance, but look deeper to find that the dapper young man in the suit is really a young lady, that the cutie in the corset is really a slender man. Other photographs simply depict straight-up dyke sex, leather bois, plain ol' kinky folks, transgendered people, and other participants in the radical queer communities of London and San Francisco from the past 30 years. A fascinating look at some of the most interesting sex around. Mostly black-and-white, some color. (2006, 159 pp.)

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[RECOMMENDED!]

Small Favors: Girly Porno Comic Collection: Book One
Coover, Colleen
Eros Comix
Annie has a small problem with masturbation; according to the Queen of her Conscience, she's already used up her lifetime allotment and she's only twenty-one years old. The solution is Nibbil, the supposed cosmic keeper of her conscience. And this tiny little nymph does manage to keep Annie from masturbating too much -- by becoming Annie's very own sexual playmate.

This absolutely adorable, black and white comic features a fresh, healthy enjoyment of sex that is all too rare in the genre. The sex is rompy and fun, with some light BDSM and a playful attitude we just love. We can't recommend this one highly enough. (2002, 128 pp.)

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Small Favors: Girly Porno Comic Collection: Book Two
Coover, Colleen
Eros Comix
Poor Sage! All she thinks about are girls, but she's just not lucky enough to meet any -- until one lucky day, when she bumps into Nibbil and Annie. What follows is the kind of rompy, playful lesbian sex that we've come to expect from artist Colleen Coover, this time with even more girls! Includes three complete issues of Small Favors, plus extra material and a new story exclusive to this volume. Highly recommended! (2004, 95 pp.)

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The Straight Girl's Guide to Sleeping with Chicks
Sincero, Jen
Fireside Books
Author Jen Sincero provides a handy guide to an activity that most women have experienced at least once, even if it was back in college: sleeping with chicks. Reasons you might want to do it, how to pick up other girls, how to woo them (with a bit of an emphasis on that old standby, alcohol, specifically, tequila), and how to bed them right and proper are just the beginning of what you'll learn in these pages. Sincero's dry wit makes this already delectable topic downright fun, and she provides a reading list at the back for further erotic inspiration. Don't miss her tips on having a three-way with a boy and on figuring out how involved you may or may not want to get with your new girly conquests. We especially love love love the photos of faux barbie-dolls demonstrating some of the positions: hilarious! Whether it's been awhile and you need a reminder or you're just curious on how to get started, this book is a must-read before heading into girlville. (2005, 320 pp.)

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Sublime Mutations
Volcano, Del LaGrace
Konkursbuch
Either/or, Neither/nor, both?

Gorgeously photographed and defiantly questioning, this book dares you to look beyond traditional "binary" definitions of gender and sexuality, and spend some time letting your eyes wander over alluring human bodies doing seductive things. (Both traditional and strikingly non-traditional beauty abound in this book.)

Open Sublime Mutations to a random page, and you're likely to see a photograph that is lush with contradictions. Read it cover to cover, and the different series of photos in the book take you on a journey that redefines femininity, pornography, preference, self-love, transsexual, intersex, and even the concept of gender itself. The rich juxtapositions of ideas, images and expectations found here include self-identified dykes and gay men getting it on with each other, boy-butch lesbians, girl-pretty boys, and abundant "natural" and "produced" androgyny, including some mesmerizing close-ups of intersexual genitals.

This reviewer was captivated and fascinated from the instant she saw the cover. If you are aroused, titillated, or even just intrigued when that beautifully ambiguous person walks past you, then you need to see this book.

This book measures approximately 9-3/4" x 12". (2000, 192 pp.)

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[RECOMMENDED!]

Three-Way: Erotic Stories
Tyler, Alison (editor)
Cleis Press
Three-way is hot, hot, hot! Whether the characters in these stories are couples adding a "guest star" for the night or have more complicated relationships, the sex in these tales is almost always breathtaking. There's a higher level of characterization in these stories, so not only are they simply good as stories, but the sex is more meaningful (though that doesn't always mean it's tender or without emotional consequences). Sometimes the most wrenching psychological scenarios make for the hottest sex, and the stories in this book don't shy away from that level of complication. And it's no wonder, with stories by such seasoned pros as Thomas S. Roche, Rachel Kramer Bussel, Alison Tyler (who is also the editor), Marilyn Jaye Lewis and others. Two fins up! (2004, 215 pp.)

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Tom of Finland: The Comic Collection (Boxed Set, Vols. 1-5)
Tom of Finland
Taschen
Tom of Finland is the master of the gleaming male bulge, the Norman Rockwell of muscle-boy porn. Love his art or hate it, there's no denying his influence on the iconography of modern studhood. Each book in this set of five contains at least eight complete panel stories, arranged chronologically. Neatly contained in a black display box, these diminutive (4-1/8" x 5-3/4" each) books are one hot package of gay beefcake that boy lovers can't resist.

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[RECOMMENDED!]

The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men
Brent, Bill
Cleis Press
Not just another good guide to playing with your butt, Bill Brent's The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men covers all the basics of anal play and then some. There's a whole chapter devoted to debunking the myths of anal sex as they pertain to men (including "Only Gay Men Do It" and "Nothing Was Meant to Go in There") and another on anatomy and exercise that mentions side-benefits of anal play (such as the health benefits of prostate massage). Written in a very clear, readable style, the information contained in this book covers pretty much everything you could want to know about anal sex -- communication, tools and toys, hygiene and diet, latex and lube, analingus, penetration and positions (for both giver and recipient, and includes info on dildo-fucking), fisting, anal health -- and some things you might not have even thought of -- extreme sex (SM, gender-play, scat-play) and recreational drug use. The book is directed at men, but Bill Brent does take into consideration some women's issues (especially female anatomy as it pertains to anal sex), and could certainly be used by women as well (although The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women deals more directly with women's concerns and might be more reassuring for nervous female novices). In fact, the only complaint we have about this impressive book is its skimpy resource section and lack of an index (though the book's chapters are clearly laid out, so finding information is less of an issue). Illustrated by Zanne and Fish (Fish did the illustrations for The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book, as well as The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women). Highly recommended. (2002, 200 pp.)

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The Ultimate Guide to Pregnancy for Lesbians
Pepper, Rachel
Cleis Press
Yes, we know, it's not about sex per se -- but sex has been known to lead to pregnancy on one or two occasions, so we decided to include this useful and informative book in our catalog anyway. Whether you're lesbian, bisexual, or heterosexual, if you're a woman who wants to get pregnant without a male partner, you'll find this book a big help. Includes info on many aspects of pregnancy -- physical, legal, emotional, and logistical, to name but a few -- from pre-conception (does thinking about getting pregnant count as a "pre-conceived notion?") to early babyhood. Thoroughly researched, clearly and humorously written.

Revised and Updated Edition (2005, 270 pp.)

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The Whole Lesbian Sex Book: Revised and Expanded Second Edition
Newman, Felice
Cleis Press
An excellent and comprehensive general sex guide for women who have -- or want -- sex with women. (It's also a fine resource for straight women who want to learn more about their bodies and responses -- as well as for straight men who want to learn more about the bodies and responses of the women in their lives.) Aimed at everyone from the complete newcomer to the experienced old-timer, it covers a tremendous amount of sexual territory, with chapters on anatomy and physical response, desire and fantasy, body image, communication and finding partners, gender, SM, sex toys, sex parties, and much, much more. A very practical guide, it offers specific sexual techniques and ideas, as well as addressing more complex emotional and personal issues. New to this edition: an expanded orgasm chapter, information on the latest sex toys, straight talk about menopause and herbal supplements to support libido, tips on handling the sexual side effects of SSRIs and a completely updated resource guide! A very useful and valuable resource. (2004, 376 pp.)

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